Financial Exploitation in Aging: What to Know & What to Do

Heres an upsetting situation that comes up a lot, and may have come up for you: is someone financially taking advantage of Mom or Dad?Its a pretty legitimate concern to have.To begin with, most people know that there are plenty of scammers out there, phoning or mailing older adults with deceptive information designed to hoodwink them out of some of their savings.But theres actually another form of exploitation that may be more common, and is often harder for families to address.That would be exploitation perpetrated by a someone the older person knows and has a personal relationship with.Sometimes the person suspected of exploitation is relatively new to the older persons life, such as a new romantic interest, friend, or paid caregiver.In other cases, family members become concerned that someone in the family such as one of the older persons children is beginning to take financial advantage of things.Exploitation in the context of personal relationships is often especially tricky for families to address.The older person may be quite attached to or otherwise feel dependent on the person that others perceive as suspicious or problematic.

Or there may be concerns about stirring up family dramas and conflicts, by voicing concerns about a sibling or another relative.People are often unsure of what exactly constitutes illegal activity, and what can be done if they are concerned about financial exploitation.So in this article, Ill cover the key things you should know, so that you can better evaluate and address a worrisome situation, should one arise.Specifically, in this article Ill explain:Key terms to know, related to the financial exploitation of older adultsSome common examples of financial abuseHow to know if an older person is at risk, or otherwise particularly vulnerable to exploitationWhat to do, if you suspect financial exploitation of an older adultHow to reduce the risk of being financially exploitedIll also share a list of additional resources and references at the end.Key terms to knowThe financial exploitation of older adults is also known as financial abuse.It is considered a type of elder abuse.It may occur simultaneously with other forms of abuse, such as neglect, emotional abuse, or physical abuse.Its important to know that although there is some federal involvement in addressing elder abuse, the definition of what exactly constitutes elder abuse or financial abuse is mainly determined by state law.

(Find your relevant local statutes here: State Elder Abuse Statutes.)Still, here are some useful general definitions:Definition of Elder Abuse (per the CDC): Elder abuse is an intentional act, or failure to act, by a caregiver or another person in a relationship involving an expectation of trust that causes or creates a risk of harm to an older adult.Definition of Financial Abuse or Exploitation (per the CDC): The illegal, unauthorized, or improper use of an older individuals resources by a caregiver or other person in a trusting relationship, for the benefit of someone other than the older individual.This includes depriving an older person of rightful access to, information about, or use of, personal benefits, resources, belongings, or assets.Examples include forgery, misuse or theft of money or possessions; use of coercion or deception to surrender finances or property; or improper use of guardianship or power of attorney.State laws include criminal law statues and civil law statues.Financial abuse is often addressed in both types of statutes.Criminal activity can be investigated by law enforcement, but illegal activity that falls under civil statutes generally isnt.The role of undue influenceAnother term that is important to understand is undue influence.

Basically, we are all influenced by people we have relationships with, and this can affect the way we choose to spend our money or share our assets.But was this influence undue, or otherwise improper? Families or others sometimes worry that an older person has been inappropriately pressured or manipulated, or perhaps taken advantage of due to memory problems or a dependent situation.Such inappropriate influence can be called undue influence.Its an important concept to understand for two reasons.First of all, its through such manipulative interpersonal dynamics that perpetrators are often able to commit financial abuse.Second, its a term that is often used in state laws related to elder abuse, or sometimes to statutes related to guardianship issues.Here is a general definition, followed by Californias definition (which was just revised in 2014):Definition of Undue Influence (per the American Bar Association & National Center on Law and Elder Rights): When people use their role and power to exploit the trust, dependency, and fear of others.

They use this power to deceptively gain control over the decision making of the second person.Definition of Undue Influence (per California State Law): Excessive persuasion that causes another person to act or refrain from acting by overcoming that persons free will and results in inequity.Californias statute goes on to specify four criteria which should be considered when determining whether a result was produced by undue influence.These include:The victims vulnerability,The factors that created authority or power for the influencer (e.g.being a necessary care provider),The actions or tactics used by the influencer (which might include controlling access to others or to life necessities),The equity of the result (e.g.

economic consequences to the victim, divergence from the victims prior intent, etc).To summarize: financial exploitation is a subset of elder abuse, and basically means inappropriately using an older persons financial resources, for the benefit of someone other than the older person.Such exploitation is often but not always facilitated by the perpetrator using undue influence, in which they create some kind of manipulative dynamic that allows them to take advantage of the older person.Examples of financial abuseUnfortunately, there many different ways to financially exploit an older adult.Its not possible to list them all, so instead, Ill share two common categories to keep in mind, along with some examples.One way to think about financial abuse is to categorize perpetrators as predators versus opportunists.Predators are individuals who purposefully seek out vulnerable older adults (or sometimes any adult), with the intent to defraud them or otherwise financially exploit them.Examples of this kind of financial abuse include:Telemarketing or other forms of phone scamsLottery scamsHomeowner/reverse mortgage scamsEmail/phishing scamsImposter scams, in which someone impersonates a grandchild or other relative and says they urgently need money wired to get out of troubleThe perpetrators of predatory financial abuse do sometimes work for several days or longer to establish a relationship with a vulnerable older person.

A recent New Yorker article describes the way one 89-year old woman was persuaded to send large sums of money to a scammer, after he spent a week telephoning her and led her to believe hed become a friend.For more on common predatory scams affecting older adults, seeTop 10 Financial Scams Targeting Seniors, from the National Council on Aging.Whereas predators are purposefully out to defraud or exploit others, opportunists are those who end up financially exploiting an older person becausewell, the opportunity arose, usually due to a relationship between the older person and the one who ends up exploiting the situation.Examples of this type of financial abuse might include:Using an older parents ATM card without their permissionForging or misusing an older persons checksUsing the authority granted by a power of attorney to use the older persons funds for ones own needsPressuring an older parent into paying expenses for oneself or for someone elseSuch opportunistic abuse can be committed by family members, paid in-home care providers, or even trusted people outside the home, such as financial advisors or spiritual advisors.Financial abuse is also sometimes committed by newer friends or romantic interests, who may take advantage of a lonely older persons generosity or interest in maintaining the relationship.Some such new romantic interests appear to be predators who actually seek out vulnerable targets, whereas others seem to be opportunists.

(Of course, suspicion or resentment of an older persons new relationship does not always meanthat abuse or even manipulative situations are occurring.)The difficulty, of course, with these examples is that plenty of common situations may fall into gray areas.If an adult child is living with and perhaps assisting an older parent, and the parent seems appreciative and wants to give that child extra money, is that exploitation? Or just a natural expression of appreciation?If an older woman gets re-married late in life and agrees to send large sums of money to her new husbands adult child, is that exploitation? Or just her exercising her autonomy and right to give money to whomever she chooses?If your older father has made your sister, who lives near him, a joint owner on his bank account, and your sister starts using money from that account to cover what she says are her expenses in assisting your father, is that legit?Its easy to see how different people may have different perspectives on such a situation.Although in some cases it may seem quite clear that what happened is financial abuse of an older person, other situations will be murkier and will be challenging to sort out.How to know if someone is at riskOne of the biggest risk factors for financial abuse is having some form of cognitive impairment, whether mild or more substantial such as Alzheimers disease or a related dementia.Obviously, having problems with memory or other aspects of thinking makes one more vulnerable to deceit and misuse of ones funds.That said, its critical to realize that even mentally sharp older adults can easily fall prey to financial exploitation.Thats because plenty of factors other than memory play a role in making an older person vulnerable.Here are some of the key factors that increase the risk of exploitation:Loneliness.

Lonely older adults more likely to be receptive to the overtures of a financial predator.They may also be more susceptible to manipulation by a family member or opportunist.Isolation.When older adults are isolated, there may be fewer family or friends around to notice a suspicious situation and intervene.

Isolated older adults are also often lonely.Poor physical health and needing assistance with daily tasks.This is associated with being dependent on others, and such dependency can create the opportunity for exploitation.Age-associated brain changes make people more trusting as they get older.Research has shown that as people age, they tend to become more optimistic and more trusting.

This can help older adults become happier as they get older, but may well be part of why many of them can be financially exploited by scams.Cognitive impairment.Again, this is not necessary for financial exploitation to happen, but it can certainly facilitate it.Also, if an older person previously completed a durable power of attorney (POA) document, the agent of an impaired person can easily abuse the POA and mismanage funds for their own benefit.Although one might assume that its mainly wealthy older adults that get financially abused, one research study found that poverty was associated with financial exploitation too.In short, financial exploitation can happen to almost any older adult, but being lonely, isolated, and/or dependent on others makes an older person especially vulnerable.

Cognitive impairment also increases the risk of financial exploitation.What to do, if you suspect the financial exploitation of an older adultIf you suspect that your older parent or another older person is being financially exploited, its important to take action.According to the National Adult Protective Services Association, signs of potential financial abuse include:Termination of vital utilities such as telephone, water, electricity / gas, or garbageUnpaid bills and liabilities despite adequate incomeOversight of finances surrendered to others without explanation or consentTransferring assets to new friends assisting with financesChecks written to CashDoes not understand his/her current finances, offers improbable explanationsUnexplained disappearance of cash, valuable objects, financial statementsUnexplained or unauthorized changes to wills or other estate documentsGiving-away money or spending promiscuouslyAppearance of property liens or foreclosure noticesIn general, any and all forms of elder abuse including financial abuse should be reported to your local Adult Protective Services (APS) office.(More on APS below.) You can use the Eldercare locator online to find your local APS office.But there are also other actions you can consider taking.Exactly what to do will depend somewhat on the circumstances, the evidence you have found so far, the older persons relationship with the perpetrator, and your relationship with the older person.Here are some steps to consider taking:Talk to the older person.

Before telling an older person what to do or not do or otherwise swooping in to help its always a good idea to try to talk and get a sense of how they see the situation.This helps older adults feel heard and understood, which may then make it easier for them to accept your assistance, if it becomes necessary.Gather more information or evidence as to what is occurring.To the best of your ability, try to make sure you have information to confirm your concerns or suspicions.

Talk to other family members as well, if possible, so that the family can coordinate their efforts to investigate and intervene.Contact the older persons financial institution.They may or may not be able to divulge details to you, but new rules are making it easier for them to refuse or stop disbursements if there is suspicion of financial abuse.Congress also passed a Senior Safe Act in 2018, to empower financial professionals to act.Contact your local Adult Protective Services (APS) office.

APS offices are designed to help investigate allegations of abuse.For more on how APS helps and what happens when a report is made, see here: National Adult Protective Services Association: Get Help.Contact law enforcement.This is especially important if you suspect fraud, theft, scams, or other criminal activity.

Your local police department or sheriffs office is generally a good place to start.Your local APS office should also be able to tell you which law enforcement agency to contact with your specific concerns.The US Department of Justices Elder Justice Initiative also maintains a handy Report Abuse page, which includes an interactive roadmap questionnaire to help you identify specific authorities to which you can report financial abuse: Find Help or Report Abuse.Most states also require individuals in certain positions to report suspected elder abuse, including financial exploitation.Health providers are often mandated reporters, and in some states, financial professionals are as well.Of course, you are likely to be facing one or more of the following challenges:The older person may resist your concern or attempts to intervene, feeling that you are infringing on her autonomy or implying that he isnt capable of taking care of his finances.Try to be as supportive and respectful as possible, as you express concerns.

Use better communication approaches, such as using I messages and making sure the older person feels heard and understood.If you dont have an active power of attorney or another way to access the older persons financial information, it can be hard to determine what is going on, and intervene to stop problematic disbursements.You should still express your concerns to the older persons bank or financial institution.As noted above, new rules are being implemented to enable financial professionals to intervene or at least place holds on disbursements, when financial exploitation is suspected.In a few states, financial professionals are mandated to report suspected financial abuse.Check your local elder abuse statutes(or Google) to find out who is a mandated reporter in your state.The suspected perpetrator may be restricting access to the older person,by refusing to let others talk to the older person on the phone, or visit.If you really are concerned about financial exploitation or other elder abuse, you should call Adult Protective Services so that they can investigate.

They will not disclose the name of the reporting party to the older person or suspected perpetrator.If youre not quite ready to call APS, try voicing your concerns to other individuals who may still have access to the older person, such a health provider or a clergy member.They might be able to encourage more communication to resolve conflicts.Your concern might also prompt them to look into a worrisome situation.For more assistance, consider contacting a civilelder law attorney.In short, if you suspect that an older person is being financially exploited, whats most important is to do something.Be as respectful as possible of the older persons feelings and autonomy, but do try to find out more, try to delay any spending if possible, and report your concerns to the appropriate authorities.In general, Adult Protective Services (APS) is the key social service agency to call, when you suspect financial abuse or any other kind of elder abuse.

That said, APS offices are locally operated, so different agencies may take slightly different approaches to investigating concerns.If you are not sure whether certain activity constitutes financial elder abuse, check your local state statutes, and/or consult an attorney.How to reduce the risk of financial exploitation in agingAs is often the case, when it comes to financial exploitation, an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.The challenge, however, is that taking steps to reduce the chance of exploitation often requires older adults to do two things that most find difficult.Realize that they are at risk.This is tough because most of us have trouble imagining a time when we might become vulnerable, gullible, or cognitively impaired.It can be distressing to think about, plus the known age-associated tendency towards optimism makes it even harder to imagine such situation.Consider giving up some privacy and autonomy.

Basically, to reduce the risk of financial exploitation, you have to be willing to do things like letting others periodically review your financial activity, and under some circumstances, overriding what you are trying to do.Understandably, many people are reluctant togive others the ability to review their decisions and intervene in their autonomy.Still, such sacrifices are probably necessary, to significantly reduce ones risk.And if done carefully and thoughtfully, it should be possible to still help an older person maintain some privacy, dignity, and autonomy.Here are a few specific steps to consider, to reduce the risk of financial exploitation:Simplify your finances, so that there are fewer accounts to oversee or regularly review.Authorize each of your financial institutions to contact 1-2 trusted individuals (such as an adult child or ones agent designated in a durable power of attorney), in case of suspicious financial activity.Develop some method of allowing your trusted individuals to review your financial activity.Options include:Giving them online access to your accounts, so that they log in and review as needed.Scheduling regular reviews of your assets and spending.

This can be a good way to keep your financial power of attorney agent in the loop, so that he or she is well-prepared to step in should you become ill or disabled.Learn about common ways that older adults are scammed by strangers,such as lottery scams, imposter scams, and other common predatory attempts.Be careful about establishing phone or email communications with strangers, especially if they bring up anything financial.Draft your financial power of attorney (POA) document in a way that reduces the risk of abuse.A 2018 issue brief from the American Bar Association describes some options, which include:Require periodic accounting to a third party.Require a second signature for large transactions.Grant the power to revoke to a trusted third party.Professionals such as ones financial advisor or an attorney (preferably one experienced with age-related legal issues) can also help advise as to the best way to protect oneself and thoughtfully empower others to interveneif it seems warranted.Last but not least, I would recommend embarking on a series of planning ahead just in case conversations with ones family or close friends.Just as we recommend that older adults talk to family about what kind of medical care they would want, if too ill to decide, we should also encourage people to talk about how their family could intervene, if they get worried about potential financial exploitation.Helpful ResourcesHere are some of the resources I found especially helpful, in researching this article:US Department of Justice Elder Justice Initiative: Financial ExploitationGood site with a roadmap feature to guide you to the right agency to report certain types of exploitation to, links to state-specific elder abuse statutes, and more.National Adult Protective Services Association: Elder Financial ExploitationIncludes a useful list of common forms of exploitation, whether by scams, strangers, or trusted individualsThere is also a page describing how APS usually helps here.National Center on Elder Abuse: State Resource ListThis site provides links to state-specific resources to address financial abuse and other forms of elder abuse.Recognize and Report Elder Financial AbuseThis helpful page lists a number of common scams and frauds, along with specific authorities to contact for certain situation.National Center on Law and Elder Rights.

This site is more geared towards supporting legal professionals.These three resources are more technical but I found them very useful:Legal Basics: Elder Financial ExploitationElder Abuse: The Impact of Undue InfluenceDrafting Advance Planning Documents to Reduce the Risk of Abuse or ExploitationI also learned a lot from recently interviewing attorney Candace Heisler, JD, who is a nationally recognized expert on the prosecution of elder abuse.Listen to the podcast episode here:070 Interview: Addressing & Preventing Financial Exploitation in AgingRemember, financial exploitation is common and can happen even to older adults who are mentally sharp.So if youre concerned about possible financial abuse, please take action, either by investigating further or by taking one of the other steps I describe above.

If ever in doubt, Adult Protective Services can help you think through your next steps.And dont forget: if youre an older adult, take sensible steps to reduce the risk of financial abuse.Your aging brain will optimistically think it cant happen to you.But it could, because it happens to lots of older people!So, be proactive and take steps to allow others to help if it becomes necessary.

This will make things easier for your family, should a concerning situation arise, and can help protect your money so that it does what it should do, which is be there for YOU.Have you taken steps to prevent financial exploitation, or otherwise had any experience with this issue? Id love to hear from you below.